"But the night is Hallowe'en, lady,
The morn is Hallowday;
Then win me, win me, and ye will,
For weel I wot ye may.
"Just at the mirk and midnight hour
The fairy folk will ride.
And they that wad their true-love win,
At Miles Cross they maun bide."
--Ballad of Tam Lin.
Some would say that Friday's party was a flop, and perhaps it was, but for me it was a chance to lose my everyday persona and have a little fun. It's a different clientele from the other years, not as fun-loving. Not only was I the only one in Halloween garb, but many of the clients left after the meeting...before the festivities even began. Of those that did stay, there were few that participated in the fun and games...apple bobbing , karaoke...instead they sat around and watched with bored expressions , but those that did had a great time with a lot of laughter. I guess many of them, growing up in the inner city, haven't really had the chance to have this type of clean and sober fun...so they just didn't know how to act.
I did want to share something with you; it has to do with one of my clients who came in in crisis. Now, it's not funny that a client was in crisis, of course, but I want you to picture the following...Client's wife puts him out. The marriage has been ending for awhile now, but it's reached the point of no return. Client comes in to meet with his counselor, and he is pouring his heart out to her. Now, picture me on the other side of the table....long straight black wig with white streaks, witch hat, small rimmed glasses on the end of my nose, dark red blushed circles on cheeks, and blackened eyes. He's talking, and I am listening, and all is serious. Now, looking back on it, it was a scene straight out of a comedy show. Thankfully, I did manage to place the client in safe and sober housing, or I probably wouldn't be joking about it today.
Sunset on Samhain is the beginning of the Celtic New Year. The old year has passed, the harvest has been gathered, cattle and sheep have been brought in from the fields, and the leaves have fallen from the trees. The earth is slowly dying around us. This is a good time for us to look at wrapping up the old and preparing for the new in our lives. Think about the things you did in the last twelve months. Have you left anything unresolved? If so, now is the time to wrap things up. Once you've gotten all that unfinished stuff cleared away, and out of your life, then you can begin looking towards the next year. The following is a little banishing spell I do every year...
This is also a time when the veils between the worlds are at their very thinnest, is a time for remembrance and honoring our beloved Ancestors who have passed on into the Otherworld. It is a time of lighting candles in remembrance, of setting extra settings on the table, and pulling up extra chairs around the fires as we invite our loved ones back for the evening to partake of our Samhain supper. A candle may be set in a window to guide them home and offerings of food were left out with the hope that this would make them feel welcomed. Gather together a few photos and other keepsakes of your ancestors and place them on or near your home altar. Set out some offerings of food, drink or valuables to honor the dead. Since I live in another state and traveling is difficult for me at this time, I visit their graves via computer at Find a Grave; there I can place some flowers on their graves and say prayers for them. Talk with your ancestors and bring them up to date about what has happened since they died on the earthly plane.
There is a world in which we dwell,
And yet a world invisible.
And do not think that naught can be
Save only what with eyes ye see:
I tell ye that, this very hour,
Had but your sight a spirit's power,
Ye would be looking, eye to eye,
At a terrific company."
--Cox--
Blessings to you and yours on Samhain. May your day be filled with joy, wonder, and magic.
and a Blessed Beltane from me :)
ReplyDeletealso All Saints day for me today :)
love to you Mary xo
Happy Halloween/Samhain to you, Dear Friend.
ReplyDeleteAnd I am loving the idea of this being the end of the year. And tomorrow being the beginning of a new year. It is feeling very right, right now. I do need some changes, and the bright/new feeling of a new year, is so much more conducive to making them, it seems.
Per usual, we find... When we are ready... And when we need....
Samhain blessings, Mary! Some people are very self-conscious about doing silly things to have fun, aren't they? They're usually the people who are too overly concerned about what others think of them. At least, that's my theory!
ReplyDeleteI too love Find A Grave.
ReplyDeleteStumbled across it ( literally speaking ) and I am sure many others are not aware of this site that you can add your loved ones to as well as visit some already entered.
Blessings to you Mary on this special...my first celebration of Samhain. I have spent a lot of today reflecting and meditating. Thank's for being a friend. Angie
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