In early June, my son was advised he had to move by July 1st. He'd lived in that apartment for 7 years and never missed a month's rent, but the owner's son was losing his apartment and needed a place to go...so Jerry and his girlfriend get booted. This after he worked on his hands and knees pulling staples from the floor after the fire in his building. And right in the middle of a pandemic when he and his girlfriend are out of work. Right now they are out in PA with my daughter, but have recently found a place on the same block where they were living so soon they will be moving back to the city. There is a vacant apartment across the hall from me, but they love that area where they lived. As much as I'd love having them so close to me, perhaps being so close to each other all the time would not be a good thing. That's how I choose to look at it so I am not disappointed.
My daughter is scheduled for bariatric surgery on August 3rd. Of course, I am a wreck and praying that all goes well for her. I'm not so sure how I feel about that. Any surgery can be dangerous and although many have wonderful results, others have long-term issues. I remember a co-worker who had it and said it was the biggest mistake she ever made. She couldn't eat anything other than soup without getting sick and vomiting. My daughter has made up her mind so all I can do is pray.
Remember how I used to take meditation and get Reiki at the center? Well, we got notice that our dear, sweet teacher passed away suddenly. We don't know what happened, but it was devastating news. The center will be having an online memorial for her on the 19th. She was such a great meditation facilitator and powerful Reiki healer. I remember how amazed I was the first time she performed it on me and the hair on my head raised up to meet her hands. May she RIP.
My friend, Marie, fell and broke her hip. She had surgery and is now in a rehab center. She has retreated from the world, wants no part of her old friends. She is too tired to talk. I wanted to send her some flowers but as per her niece, she is just too tired to take care of them. I suggested sending some fruit, but that was out as well since they won't let on where she is. I had figured that if I sent flowers they would have to tell me. I fear now that Marie may be one I never get to say good bye to as well. It scares me when I think of how many I may never see again once the center reopens. There haven't been any Covid deaths among members that I know of, but many were up in years and many may be afraid to come back again.
Mother's Day was so bittersweet this year, but this gift from my son won my heart. I shall treasure it forever.
Good luck to your daughter with her bariatric surgery. I've known people who have had that and it was very successful, so I hope she will be in that group.
ReplyDeleteSad news about your meditation teacher and your old friend Marie. The world turns, doesn't it.
2020 has been a nightmare that never seems to end. I know one day it will, but how long from now will that be.
DeleteMany thanks for sharing your catch-up news.
ReplyDeleteWhat a nightmare year 2020 has been for so many.
I hope your daughters surgery goes well.
That was a very special mothers day gift.
Healing thoughts and good wishes.
All the best Jan
New York is doing pretty well right now, but who knows if it will last. I'm so tired of this.
DeletePraying your daughter's surgery goes well and she has a full recovery from it. So sorry about your instructor and your friend Marie's fall. This year is just the pits all around.
ReplyDeleteHope you and the hubby are staying safe and doing well.
Thank you. Hope you and yours are doing well. Missed you.
DeleteMissed you too my friend.
DeleteWe're hanging in there.
I am so glad to see you on Blogger again. I was concerned about you and glad to read you are doing OK.
ReplyDeleteMy iPad has not been working well lately and I have not been able to read other’s posts and I am glad that I have found a way around it and got to see your post.
I like having my children living nearby, but not too nearby. Half an hour away works for me as I don’t want to know too much. It is not good for my gut.
So sorry about your loss of a friend and losing another one because of their family.
My son has a wonderful black shirt that says 2020 SUCKS. I couldn’t say it better.
Glad to hear you are doing well. I have missed you.
DeleteMy youngest daughter had a gastric bypass, two years ago, or so. She remains pleased. Best wishes to your daughter.
ReplyDeleteThanks for letting me know that. I worry needlessly at times.
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