Lately, though, I have been worried about her. Twice her legs have given out as she was coming down the stairs. Thank God she has not gotten hurt, but poor little thing sits and cries. And Ruth has a few idiosyncrasies which she is allowed at her age. She needs to sit next to Dorothy, a regular at the center who helps Ruth with everything, and she likes having a chair for her bag and refusing to move it so someone can sit. She even did it to me, and we ride the bus together, but I let it go and found another seat. She also keeps about 3 cups of water in front of her and usually spills one of them. This and the bag on the seat has irritated a couple of other members. One woman threatened to throw water in her face, and another called her a 'bitch'. I just don't understand. Ruth is so tiny and helpless. How can people be so cruel?
(Sigh) On another note.
I started working on this necklace Friday. It's Malachite semi precious stone beads. However, I discovered there was not enough. The necklace is too short so I ordered more and am waiting for them to come in so I can finish it.
Staying in today. About time. I've got a bit of cooking to do this morning, but then want to hit up a new book I bought. Will tell you about it later.
Have a good one.
I never could understand cruelty and why some people choose to be selfish and mean and have little empathy for others. What miserable lives they must live.
ReplyDeleteAgreed. Ruth has to be about under 5 ft. She is so tiny and frail. breaks my heart.
DeleteI agree. At 87, we're entitled to a couple of harmless eccentricities.
ReplyDeleteIndeed we are. So sad to see someone treated so poorly.
DeleteI feel terrible about people getting angry with that poor woman. Maybe they should think ahead to becoming elderly and not able to do all of things that they could before.
ReplyDeleteThat is another treasure that you are creating...love it!
That salad sure looks tasty!
They are up in years, but don't have Parkinson's so they get along very well. They lost their empathy somewhere along the way.
DeleteCruelty does my head and heart in. Parkinson's is another cruel disease. I am not surprised she often spills one of her glasses of water (which might be part of the reason she keeps several).
ReplyDeleteIt is the reason for the spilling. Her hand shakes so much. Breaks my heart.
DeleteI love the necklace...pretty.
ReplyDeleteYour dinner looks so delicious...yummy
Thank you so much.
DeleteOur world has some rude and hateful people!!!!! I just don’t understand people sometimes!!
ReplyDeleteI can't understand it either. She is so small and frail. It breaks my heart.
DeleteIt is sad that those people were intentionally mean and hurtful to an 87 year old lady. Maybe they have anger in that they see their own aging and what may lie ahead. My mom is 78 and she is sweet as sugar, but she tells me about mean things that others say! Pointless.
ReplyDeleteI think they resent the fact that others, including staff, take care of her when she comes. They get her water, her food, help her get around. I heard one of the mean ones mutter, "She thinks she is a queen."
DeleteUnfortunately our world does have some rude and almost uncaring people in it, and it's distressing to see.
ReplyDeleteBut full marks to this lady for getting out and about.
Love the look of your healthy dinner from last night.
All the best Jan
It breaks my heart. She is really such a sweetheart.
DeleteWait until those folks get old and delicate themselves....then we'll see how they like it and how they would like to be treated.
ReplyDeleteawesome article..
ReplyDeletehave a nice day
I am so sorry for your friend! Give her a hug from me! I love your necklace and your salad looks so good! Big Hugs!
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