tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post323664143105812858..comments2024-03-28T14:40:53.263-04:00Comments on Moontides: My Inner Child Has Spoken to Memxtodis123http://www.blogger.com/profile/13583200601379394225noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-33120614897263564192010-04-13T08:30:57.157-04:002010-04-13T08:30:57.157-04:00Hi Mary, you remember a while back you posted the ...Hi Mary, you remember a while back you posted the poem about "People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime" perhaps the person who left your blog or blogs was just that, "someone in your life for a season." Even though I rarely leave a comment, I enjoy your blog and often things you say really "hit the spot" for me. Thank you.Moirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03248425760199196965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-38006679703084307902010-04-08T10:00:07.804-04:002010-04-08T10:00:07.804-04:00Here's a virtual *hug* from my inner child to ...Here's a virtual *hug* from my inner child to yours! ;)SpiritPhoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10355755804391063416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-74437785827935123692010-04-08T05:07:59.968-04:002010-04-08T05:07:59.968-04:00Oh Mary sometimes people will leave for whatever r...Oh Mary sometimes people will leave for whatever reason. I really don't think it is anything personal. I truly enjoy your blog and the colors are fantastic. <br /><br />How is hubby's new job going? Any better for him?<br /><br />(((HUGS)))Dedehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02821482775305463539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-8850787923729472102010-04-08T02:46:57.838-04:002010-04-08T02:46:57.838-04:00Mary firstly thank you for sharing, I think we can...Mary firstly thank you for sharing, I think we can all say that we too have felt the same way at some point in our lives. I love visiting you daily and although i dont always comment i love reading each and every post :)<br /><br />'Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same'.<br />(Flavia Weedn)Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11245023977732271721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-48582349348208362482010-04-07T21:54:23.964-04:002010-04-07T21:54:23.964-04:00Sometimes it's just a matter of the 'last ...Sometimes it's just a matter of the 'last straw' that will set off something that normally would not bother...we've all been there...Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14414361079501574872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-64042335358584198742010-04-07T18:29:52.472-04:002010-04-07T18:29:52.472-04:00I want to thank all of you for your kind words. I...I want to thank all of you for your kind words. I debated posting this today because I felt like such a big baby. People have left my blogs before, and I totally understand they might have joined and then found it was not what they were looking for...I don't know why this one struck me so. I have no idea who it was. Something struck a chord yesterday. Something set off my emotions.mxtodis123https://www.blogger.com/profile/13583200601379394225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-4774781938512845032010-04-07T18:26:31.400-04:002010-04-07T18:26:31.400-04:00~mary you feeling childlike or not...something i t...~mary you feeling childlike or not...something i think we can all relate too...my first followers dropped were two at one time...and i had teh same sudden reaction...i have even had one follow then not and then follow then not then come back for a third time...i just think whew! what a crazy cycle...i think we all feel or question at first why but then shrug it off...we all have our friends that come back regularly so if we lose one here or there...well we can not always please everyone...nor will everyone find what we are saying important or meaningful...i guess thats the joy of blogging is our free will to choose...though it can be hurtful for a moment or too...you are a blessing to all of us here and we all value your words and time put forth to share with us...release your inner child and yet behold the woman you are...beautiful just as you...only brightest blessings and l♥ve upon you always~brandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16319756453755628466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-34521680589460898692010-04-07T17:58:20.064-04:002010-04-07T17:58:20.064-04:00oh Mary. I love you! your story is so similar to m...oh Mary. I love you! your story is so similar to mine.. I was a latchkey kid too, with a violent alcoholic faterh... and I have this desperate need to be liked.. and when someone leaves my blog I feel the same. that is why I took it off the sidebar.. I can still see it on my dashboard but it is not on the blog itself. <br />when someone leaves following my blog, I try to work out who it is and wonder what 'I' have 'done'.. and of course I have done nothing.. pfft to them I say.. <br />that is why I don't follow blogs anymore..I have my favourites which I visit regularly and that is if for me now. <br />sending big hugs from your new kindred sister soul xo R<br />so today, do something fun for that little girl.. blow bubbles.. watch butterflies.. find objects in the clouds xoxoMiss Robynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15144002124919728056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-41126924415644647222010-04-07T16:17:22.329-04:002010-04-07T16:17:22.329-04:00Some parts of this post felt so familiar that i co...Some parts of this post felt so familiar that i could have written them. I felt like that not so long ago. It was just a stranger that told me i should lose weight. Then all those emotions i thought were behind me, all tha pain rushed back and all that work, meditation and self healing exercises seemed worthless. <br />I begun crying again because my mom never accepted me and because she forced diets on me that a grown up should never do when i was 10.<br />I saw the painful images that used to haunt me(me over the toilet, me crying before the mirror, me starving)again and again like a horrifying collage of self hate. <br />A stranger told me i should lose weight and suddenly i was 10 again hiding the box of cookies under my bed. <br />That little girl that noone protected. She was alone against the world. She is still alone against me. Goddess help her.greekwitchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09666291801038882275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-61864031939507319642010-04-07T15:50:32.716-04:002010-04-07T15:50:32.716-04:00i can understand the feeling too but who knows may...i can understand the feeling too but who knows maybe they canceled their account who knows. I make the mistake sometimes of taking things personal and over thinking things, so i can emphasize .CorvusCorax12https://www.blogger.com/profile/02705986279180729268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-30680441257400527442010-04-07T15:07:22.700-04:002010-04-07T15:07:22.700-04:00I don't have many, but I've lost some and ...I don't have many, but I've lost some and gained some...it's a weird feeling...and we never know why...that's the hardest part...Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14414361079501574872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-47424863748402265882010-04-07T14:45:40.739-04:002010-04-07T14:45:40.739-04:00Mary, I'm sure there are people out there who ...Mary, I'm sure there are people out there who follow your blogs without ever signing on as followers. Besides, you shouldn't take it personally. They may of had a legitament reason for dropping out. X.Bogamanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04492009369027371826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-45990356544503388552010-04-07T14:38:45.609-04:002010-04-07T14:38:45.609-04:00Oh Mary, what a wonderful post! I have certainly l...Oh Mary, what a wonderful post! I have certainly lost a follower or two and I have to say I felt the same. At first why? Then I thought so what? I do wonder why at times though, I have to admit. I didnt even know you could lose followers until it happened to me. I lost four at once too, its a bitter blow. To be honest I have grown quite a few followers and I get a average of 5 comments each time I post, so what does that tell you? Never worry Mary, I think your blog is wonderful, I loved the story of you going to school. I was in the same position as yourself in those ways and I looked a sight! Keep writing and your music is blissful! ((hugs))clairedulalunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13016107591509306202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-51710775257781827132010-04-07T14:18:18.242-04:002010-04-07T14:18:18.242-04:00Dearest Mary,
I so understand how our inner child ...Dearest Mary,<br />I so understand how our inner child can resurface. Mine has done so from time to time..especially when vulnerability sets in. Most times however, I invite the silly one to come through...laughs usually ensue. <br />I also have had "followers" leave my blog for one reason or another. Funny, I tend to pout for a minute or two..then I shrug and say "oh well." They were not to be.<br />You are a dear, and your blogs are lovely places to visit. Don't worry, sometimes "others" are not the right fit for us and so they move on as they should. I shall stick around and keep you in my life...happily so.<br />Hugs,<br />SandraMiss Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16925858880019524507noreply@blogger.com