tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post2114322225320732210..comments2024-03-28T18:52:54.620-04:00Comments on Moontides: For Salemxtodis123http://www.blogger.com/profile/13583200601379394225noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-45366047474864839762011-09-26T14:23:12.413-04:002011-09-26T14:23:12.413-04:00It is scary to change something after 15 years, bu...It is scary to change something after 15 years, but I have a good feeling about this Mary and it sounds like underneath your expected anxiety you do too. <br /><br />Even if a house is sold as-is there still has to be a closing and all that jazz. I would say December is a reasonable time period, if not more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-65742316230149519622011-09-26T13:12:22.668-04:002011-09-26T13:12:22.668-04:00Good luck with finding your new home Mary, i know ...Good luck with finding your new home Mary, i know its not easy, let alone finding the extra money it involves, in advance rents and deposits. I hope it all works out for you and lets hope its a great new begining for you all x x x my best wishes are with you at this time of upheavelChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11245023977732271721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-6719931314871177752011-09-26T12:21:03.247-04:002011-09-26T12:21:03.247-04:00(((Holding you in gentle Sisterly Hugs and a gentl...(((Holding you in gentle Sisterly Hugs and a gentle wind to blow you where you will be most happy.)))<br /><br />My thoughts and heart are still with you and I pray for your Highest Good!<br /><br />All My Love Dear Friend!!!AkasaWolfSonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04128887650617351563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-90293646634008129462011-09-26T09:54:48.889-04:002011-09-26T09:54:48.889-04:00I wish you to continue to take good things/feeling...I wish you to continue to take good things/feelings, from all this getting-rid-of-stuff. <br /><br />We need to (do getting-rid-of-stuff). We know we need to. But it is too easy to *forget* about doing so, from day to day. I wish you to be able to be thankful for this move........ Because it is causing you to do this getting-rid-of-things-which-are-no-longer-necessary-to-you.<br /><br />Oh I know, not everything is EASY to get rid of. But please, try to concentrate on the lightness and freedom feelings, which this process can give you.<br /><br />Lots and lots of hugs, during the entire process...<br /><br /><i><b>"For summer there, bear in mind, is a loitering gossip, that only begins to talk of leaving when September rises to go."</b></i><br />~~George Washington CableAuntie sezzzzzz...https://www.blogger.com/profile/16170232476926222740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-55745455725692328512011-09-26T08:22:42.112-04:002011-09-26T08:22:42.112-04:00Mary, as you sort and pack, discard and donate, yo...Mary, as you sort and pack, discard and donate, you will have moments of sweet memories, sadness and possibly anger at the situation. But it sounds like it will be the best thing for your family to remove yourselves from this toxic environment and find a safe and sane haven elsewhere. My husband and I have moved so many times during our years in the Navy. I have learned that HOME is not so much a place, but a state of mind, being with those you love. The next weeks will be tough, but can also be energizing. I am excited for you! Finally being able to plug in your Christmas tree!! Hugs!Robin Larkspurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04949175314401172368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-91103094487638284692011-09-26T05:43:34.342-04:002011-09-26T05:43:34.342-04:00I have rented for years. One place, which I loved...I have rented for years. One place, which I loved was almost always for sale. People coming in and out of it invading my privacy. I stayed through several owners, some there for a short time, some longer but again - always for sale and I felt similar to how you feel, so sick of the insecurity of it. I too eventually moved into a building and I loved it. Yes, I missed the yard and the front porch but at least I could relax. One thing that helped me though - I checked into the rental laws in my state. Even though you have an apartment in a private home, the landlords still must abide by the law, so maybe you should find out how much time legally you have in a house sale situation. For me, I found out that I could limit the amount and the days of showings of my apartment as long as my limits were "reasonable." I started prohibiting showings on Sundays, much to the real estates chagrin. When they complained, I quoted the law, which of course they were well aware of, but were hoping that I wasn't. <br /><br />I truly hope that this is going to be a good thing for you and that you look back and realize that the move was necessary. It's just such a lot of work for you right now. still sending you all my best intentions.Aine O'Brienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18372090267226506263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-12628194824899173262011-09-25T20:26:01.517-04:002011-09-25T20:26:01.517-04:00Hi Mary,
Seems like we're almost in the same b...Hi Mary,<br />Seems like we're almost in the same boat. I'm crying my eyes out because there might, just might be an offer coming in on my house. I know I need to sell and move on and some days I want to, but others I just can't see moving. Where do I go? I'm still as confused as I was last year.<br /><br />It does feel good to sort out and throw away. I hope you find a wonderful new home for you and hubby with lots of windows and sunlight coming in.<br />HugsWendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14788733654505792266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-44470182687432650272011-09-25T17:12:53.929-04:002011-09-25T17:12:53.929-04:00i feel for you...i hope you find a wonderful place...i feel for you...i hope you find a wonderful place to start over in ♥CorvusCorax12https://www.blogger.com/profile/02705986279180729268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-81547333345565857502011-09-25T16:59:40.366-04:002011-09-25T16:59:40.366-04:00:0( my friend. Am feeling your pain. So sorry.
A...:0( my friend. Am feeling your pain. So sorry.<br /><br />As for how much time you have to move....I think it will be awhile. Even if it sells ASAP you have rights and the new owners have to give you a certain amount of time which is only reasonable. I'm no attorney, but I'd say you have 90 days after it sells. You could call an attorney and ask, if it would make you more secure in the knowledge that time is on your side. <br />Talk about divisions in religion. A Gentile is what...contagious, dirty, evil? Where's the LOVE of man??? Just saying..I don't know if that is true either that they can't live in a house a Gentile has lived in, but if it is.... OMG It's not what he was preaching to his faithful. <br />As for the packing and parting with...I have no idea where I'd even start. You are doing GOOD. Real GOOD . One day at a time my friend.<br />(((hugs))) we can always use some (((hugsssssssssssss)))My name WAS Female, I shit you not!https://www.blogger.com/profile/18261595799137622984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-37732065559287899942011-09-25T16:23:08.949-04:002011-09-25T16:23:08.949-04:00With 15 years in the same place, you've been t...With 15 years in the same place, you've been there longer than I've lived anywhere as an adult! As you're finding out, this kind of a move is definitely hard work, but also very cathartic. I've joked recently that I either need to move or clean drawers and cupboards because we've been in our house now for going on nine years! Visualize yourself putting all your treasures into your new place with all the windows, and with a new, fresh, beautiful beginning. Blessings, Mary!Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07946709925967078983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2795332554006054086.post-38002203389682201652011-09-25T16:08:36.031-04:002011-09-25T16:08:36.031-04:00Check the landlord and tenant laws of your state. ...Check the landlord and tenant laws of your state. They still have to provide you with a certain period of notice before you have to vacate, even if the house sells in the interim. That's the way things are up here, anyway.Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.com